Now we have a
flat at Whitby we see Martin and family fairly often when we visit. We are also
trying to keep in constant touch with Alison and Frances and their families.
Frances in
Birmingham isn’t too much of a problem. We could visit for a few hours without
great difficulty as she is less than a hours drive away. Her daughter Alice
seems to grow taller every time we see her. She is head and shoulders above her
cohort. This is genetic as Matt while being just averagely tall has two very
tall brothers. Alice and Ben have both had their hair cut shorter; Alice to
shoulder length while Ben has his great head of hair cut back to something I
would think fairly average for his age.
Frances is
taking a six month secondment to work on the new library system for the Dubai
campus which Birmingham University is opening next September. This position will
be based in Birmingham but as far as I can see should enable Dubai based
students to access at least some of the home based documents. She isn’t too
disappointed that travel to Dubai is not planned.
Their house
while “modern estate style” is enlarged and is at the end of a cul-de-sac and
backs on to Kings Norton Park. Because the park is bordered by trees and shrubs
behind the house they are not bothered by any park activities but at the same
time they have good access to the park via a gate in their back fence.
Visiting
Alison in Guildford is more difficult. It takes maybe 4 or 5 hours by road. We
were very interested to see the recent changes when we visited last week.
Alison is a restless spirit and is continually making changes to her house. The
latest is a very major change to include a second storey with an attic room for
Ellie. The building work has been dogged by problems. The most recent is that
the builder has injured himself and cannot work for a few weeks. The room is
habitable but the adjacent bathroom remains to be completed.
Alison now
has Alina staying with her as au pair. Alina from Germany is the daughter of a
colleague. She gets on well with Ellie and I was amused to notice that when she
joined Ellie’s bowling party she looked quite one of them despite being several
years older.
Alison says work
on her environmental science Masters degree is complete but her job remains
mired in uncertainty. Apparently the new buzzword is stewardship which seems to
mean taking a holistic view of the products; supplying a data sheet of hazards
and usage isn’t enough.
Our visit
coincided with the last of Ellie’s birthday celebrations, she is now a teenager
as from September 11. This took the form of a ten pin bowling party at the
local leisure centre. I was very pleased to see that Steve worked well together
with Alison in cutting the cake and distributing party bags. Although they have
now been divorced for several years it has been a most amicable split which I
am very pleased about not least because it has minimised the effect on the
children. It doesn’t seem that long ago that we visited when Ellie was born.
Nate is
maturing very nicely. He clearly studies carefully the many books in his
library. I was quite amazed at the understanding he displays of some quite
esoteric subjects. It was a real joy to discuss some with him; I reckon his knowledge
in some areas will be a challenge for me to keep pace.
Our trip
together was to nearby Watts gallery. George Watts was a Victorian artist. He
painted on a grand scale. He is called the English Michelangelo and some his
work was murals. One mural has been rescued from its original building and is
on display.
The gallery (
which also has some massive sculpture ) is part of a group of buildings which
include an impressive brick chapel, his house and of course a large gift shop.