Saturday, 15 September 2018

Genealogy




Is much on my mind at present. A rather fanatical relative encouraged me to take a DNA test from Ancestry.co.uk. Frankly this has given a mass of information which I’m very uncertain how to interpret. My interest, indeed our family interest, dates back over 20 years.

When Alison was in her final school years she entered the Duke of Edinburgh award scheme. Among the tasks was to develop an interest. She decided on genealogy. There was a story within my family that many lived for centuries in N Staffordshire near Stowe by Chartley. We investigated with her and found the actual location was a hamlet nearby at Fradswell. Looking at the churchyard immediately gave a trove of information as there were Hall gravestones going back centuries.

After Alison left for university Annette, who had always been interested, did a lot of further research. It soon transpired that the family in Fradswell had occupied a farm until the middle of the 19th century when on the death of the patriarch the children had sold up. There were a large number of girls and three boys. My great grandfather  used his substantial inheritance in an unusual way. Although married with a child he travelled to the Americas, we don’t know where, and lived there for several years. We can only presume he intended, if successful, to bring his wife and child to re-join him. In the event he returned to England and his family, fathering  nine girls and two boys.

It is just a little later that a central puzzle in my life begins. My paternal grandmother for some reason, presumably severe post natal depression, handed over her first born to her mother-in-law. Although my grandmother had several more children her first born never returned. This first born child was my father. Family stories have it that my great grandmother, a very maternal woman. had pleaded for the baby to stay with her. This plea was reinforced as her own two youngest died young.

Thus as my father put it he was “Granny reared”. The main consequence for me was that he was always close to his younger aunts who had effectively been big sisters to him. I never understood this as a child and I always thought it slightly odd. My father lived with his grandparents and then with his grandmother until her death. He then lived with his aunt and uncle until he married.

It is my great grandfather who is of much interest to me. While still at Fradswell he was in the Staffordshire Yeomanry. This was a sort of Home Guard of its day. I have his cavalry sword as an heirloom.  Although this was after the Napoleonic Wars there was great fear that revolution would spread to  England. The Yeomanry was more of a support to the civil power as they were not contracted to serve outside the county. He returned from the America’s with a limp which was said to be the result of falling off his horse. When he returned he had a life as a farm bailiff prior to eventually becoming the licensee of a public house. My father was raised at this pub which is ironic because he was at another pub while living with his aunt and uncle.

My DNA results show as close relatives only the three I already knew about. The DNA appeared to show a strong Scandinavian decent ( 29% ) which I supposed could support the family story that my distant ancestors came to England after the Norman conquest. It was said they were in the retinue of Earl Ferrers and he gave the land which was subsequently held for centuries. We can trace my ancestry back to the 16th century but beyond that is virtually impossible as written records are very sparse.

My only male cousin has no heirs so it will be up to Alex ( my grandson ) to continue the family name.

Based on the family probably still living in N Staffordshire Annette advertised in a Stoke on Trent newspaper. This was very successful as we found several distant relatives. Inspired by the fanatical genealogist we met up a couple of times. We are all descended from the final Fradswell family. The expert genealogist wrote a paper about our family for a genealogical journal.

Why don’t owls mate in a storm?

Because it’s too wet to woo

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