I’ve been
thinking about my father both recently, and over the years. I feel I’m come to
understand him a lot more than I did; firstly as an adolescent forging my own
identity and secondly as a young man too busy to reflect and perhaps too
arrogant to attempt understanding. One salient fact which seemed perfectly
natural at the time but I now realise was rather odd. This was that from the
age of 10 onwards until I left home I never saw him from Sunday evening until
the following Saturday. To explain I need to
return to my fathers back story.
My father
became a coal miner in about 1920 as soon as he was old enough. Before that he
had been a vicars groom and houseboy and then worked on a farm. Where he lived
in a village north of Atherstone the alternatives for a young fit man with no skills
was either mining or agricultural labourer. I don’t think he hesitated long
before mining which was relatively well paid. In fact as a young man he was
fairly well off for a labourer, certainly enough to have a motorcycle.
After marrying
fairly late in life ( he was 34 ) the motorcycle went but he still had a decent
lifestyle for his neighbourhood. Then during the war with extra shifts and a
relative reduction in wage compared with factory workers things worsened
slightly. He was still affluent enough to buy another motorcycle this time with
sidecar. He was finding heavy work increasingly difficult reaching a point
eventually that he just could no longer manage it. Seeking an explanation he
was diagnosed with fibrositis. Essentially he had damaged his back muscles so
much that rather than natural repair they were permanently replaced by scar
tissue.
This led to
about 2 years off work. The family finances became increasingly strained
falling from adequate to really rather poor. After unsuccessful treatments he
eventually was given a job as a haulage hand on the afternoon ( 2pm-10pm )
shift. The pit worked 24hours on a three shift basis with nights and days
producing coal and afternoons devoted to repair and maintenance. The job
involved loading, unloading and controlling the underground railway from the
shaft bottom to near the coalfaces. Although paid less than a faceworker the
job was much less strenuous.
This regular
shift pattern meant he arrived home shortly before 11pm when I was in bed and
he would still be in bed when I left for school. Very occasionally I was
allowed to stay up until he came home. First priority was a dish of tea. A cup
of tea was too hot for the thirsty man so it was poured into a steep sided
saucer and drunk from that as it cooled more quickly.
The fibrositis
meant that although he could walk and cycle fairly normally, bending was an
effort and lifting any significant weight impossible. He was very conscious of
not being as good a provider as he wished. From about 1950 until retirement I
can only think of one holiday he took away from home. Weekend and holiday times
were set aside for recuperation. We still had the motorcycle combination but
trips were to see relatives.
All my holidays
and trips were with my mother only. We went to London both on a day trip and to
spend a week. One trip was to see the D’oyly-Carte opera company in Birmingham
where on other occasions we went to museums. I realise now mother was making an
effort to see that I had as wide an experience as she could provide from
limited resources. From about the time I was 14 she also made sure we took a
“quality” weekend newspaper in addition to
the family Sunday Express. I enjoyed the Observer and I think she did
also.
My father had
left school at 12. He was a reasonably fluent reader, certainly good enough to
enjoy reading for pleasure. Writing was another matter. Any serious writing
demanded thorough preparation including a rough draft plus frequent appeals to
mother over spelling.
Careful
preparation was fathers watchword in his hobby of gardening and also in
preparing for work. His work boots were carefully prepared with long laces so
that he finished normal lacing with a knot and enough to spare to pass a couple
of times around the boot top then with any remaining excess tucked into the
circular boot top turn..
His jacket was
always modified with a very large inside pocket to carry his “snap tin”. This
lidded metal box carried a small snack to be eaten underground at break times.
This was accompanied by a bottle of cold tea.
As he grew
older father was quite bitter about his job choice. He was very conscious that
in the social hierarchy miner came close
to the bottom. In general although always affable he didn’t particularly choose
to associate with fellow mine workers. There were a few he liked as
individuals but he avoided joining
things like miners clubs.
I have thought
since that he was rather suspicious of higher education. He consented to
Loughborough College because my cousin John had attended there previously. I
have often thought he would have been more comfortable if I had become a
skilled tradesman ( plumber, electrician or the like ) and lived in the same
village. The only careers advice he ever gave me was “I don’t care what you do
as long as you don’t go down the pit”
I was very
pleased at the end of my school life when I was 18 I went with my fellows down
a training face at a West Midlands colliery. Tolerable enough for a day but not
for a working life.
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